Living with Aspergers siblings is not always easy. One minute the two are playing a game or sharing a special toy and the next minute, the child with Asperger’s is in the middle of a meltdown while the sibling sits wondering what happened to cause it.
Everyone in your home should learn about Asperger’s Syndrome.
Even small children can be told why their sibling acts the way he does in a way they can understand. Simple, matter-of-fact explanations will satisfy the younger ones. Allow the children to ask questions. Negative effects on siblings will be
diminished if they are informed. Young children do not like
personal mysteries.
Here are some additional ideas for you to use to help your other
children deal with Asperger’s Syndrome.
1. There are books written specifically for the siblings of children with Asperger’s Syndrome.
These books are available for all ages and come in the form of non-fiction essays by real children, fictional storybooks, books written by teens with Asperger’s, and personal accounts written by parents or adult siblings to name a few. You should be able to find just what you need for your child’s siblings.
A possible choice is Views from Our Shoes: Growing Up With a Brother or Sister With Special Needs by Donald Meyer.
This book is a collection of essays written by the siblings of children with Asperger’s Syndrome. They range in age from four to eighteen. To read
about this book go to ...
2. Special attention is a necessity for the siblings of a child with Asperger’s Syndrome.
The child with Asperger’s unintentionally demands attention. His behaviors are
questionable in his sibling’s eyes; they would never get by with doing some of those things. Schedule regular one-on-one outings or play dates with each child. Give each one your undivided attention and make them feel special as often as
possible. They need you and yes, you need them.
3. Family counseling can help with all sorts of negative feelings, especially once the siblings get older.
The child with Asperger’s can embarrass them. Having a safe place to vent frustrations and negative feelings will keep your household feeling positive while everyone makes the most of having a compassionate listener.
Siblings of a child with Asperger’s should suffer no ill effects when living in a balanced, supportive home. Take steps when they are young to minimize any negatives and help them grow up to be caring, compassionate adults.
Article Source: "What Every Parent Ought To Know About Their Aspergers Child"
From: Dave Angel (Author of "The Parenting Aspergers Resource Guide")
Dave Angel is a social worker with over 11 years real life experience in the field working with families just like yours and a Masters Degree in Applied Social Studies.
Over the past eleven years he has worked with hundreds of families who have had children with special needs (both young and old) and have a special interest in Aspergers.
Read more about effective methods which can have a really positive effect on your aspergers child:
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Asperger Syndrome behavior - Practical Help
Aspergers Treatment
Aspergers Syndrome Cause
Asperger Syndrome Behaviour
Asperger Syndrome Behavior - Sexual Behavior
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Aspergers Temper Tantruns
Aspergers Diet
Aspergers Syndrom Cause
Asperger Syndrome Details
Aspergers Symptoms
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Aspergers Diagnosis - How To Deal With The Aspergers Diagnosis
if you are the parent who just received the confirmation of Aspergers Diagnosis of your child do not panic. It is not the end of the world. So, what to do? How to deal with this Aspergers Diagnosis? Is there something to help your child as well as the whole family?
I know that leaving with aspergers diagnosis of your child is not easy, on the other hand NOW you know why your child is behaving like this.It is what it is. Think of your child’s diagnosis as information. Your child is the same child he was before the diagnosis. Now you have an explanation for his weaknesses and even some of his strengths. Keep a positive attitude by focusing on the strengths.
The biggest step a parent has to take after the diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome is acknowledgement and acceptance. As hard as it sounds right now, you have to accept the diagnosis and move on.
Is there any help? What to do?
1. Educate yourself and your family about Asperger’s Syndrome
You must learn all you can about Asperger’s. There are many books available written by professionals and by parents of children with Asperger’s.
For example, Embarrassed Often, Ashamed Never
by Lisa Elliott is an encouraging and often humorous glimpse into her life as the parent of a child with Asperger’s Syndrome.
This is a great choice for parents and family members of a child with Asperger’s. You can read about it at
2. Find local Asperger’s Syndrome support groups
Connect with local families who have been where you are in the process. These families know firsthand what it’s like to live with Asperger’s. It is comforting and powerful to be with others who are on the same journey. These support groups can
help you find treatment resources in your area, community events for your family to attend, and more.
3. Seek individual and family counseling
Asperger’s brings an added risk of anxiety and depression. Your child will benefit from counseling. While seeking a counselor for your child, consider finding a family counselor. You are all affected emotionally be this diagnosis. Individual and family therapy can help you work through the rough spots that will come.
4. Keep a check on your physical well-being
Regular medical care is necessary since stress can cause physical illness. Your well-being is necessary in order to care for your family. Allow time for yourself and your hobbies. Plan regular outings and just be a family. Asperger’s shouldn’t
control your life.
5. Don’t let the cynics get you down.
You can’t stop people from reacting negatively to your child, but you can stop
responding to their negativity. If they miss the joy of knowing your child, that is their problem.
Article Source: "What Every Parent Ought To Know About Their Aspergers Child"
From: Dave Angel (Author of "The Parenting Aspergers Resource Guide")
Dave Angel is a social worker with over 11 years real life experience in the field working with families just like yours and a Masters Degree in Applied Social Studies.
Over the past eleven years he has worked with hundreds of families who have had children with special needs (both young and old) and have a special interest in Aspergers.
Read more about effective methods which can have a really positive effect on your aspergers child:
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Asperger Syndrome behavior - Practical Help
Aspergers Treatment
Aspergers Syndrome Cause
Asperger Syndrome Behaviour
Asperger Syndrome Behavior - Sexual Behavior
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Aspergers Temper Tantruns
Aspergers Diet
Aspergers Syndrom Cause
Asperger Syndrome Details
Aspergers Symptoms
I know that leaving with aspergers diagnosis of your child is not easy, on the other hand NOW you know why your child is behaving like this.It is what it is. Think of your child’s diagnosis as information. Your child is the same child he was before the diagnosis. Now you have an explanation for his weaknesses and even some of his strengths. Keep a positive attitude by focusing on the strengths.
The biggest step a parent has to take after the diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome is acknowledgement and acceptance. As hard as it sounds right now, you have to accept the diagnosis and move on.
Is there any help? What to do?
1. Educate yourself and your family about Asperger’s Syndrome
You must learn all you can about Asperger’s. There are many books available written by professionals and by parents of children with Asperger’s.
For example, Embarrassed Often, Ashamed Never
by Lisa Elliott is an encouraging and often humorous glimpse into her life as the parent of a child with Asperger’s Syndrome.
This is a great choice for parents and family members of a child with Asperger’s. You can read about it at
2. Find local Asperger’s Syndrome support groups
Connect with local families who have been where you are in the process. These families know firsthand what it’s like to live with Asperger’s. It is comforting and powerful to be with others who are on the same journey. These support groups can
help you find treatment resources in your area, community events for your family to attend, and more.
3. Seek individual and family counseling
Asperger’s brings an added risk of anxiety and depression. Your child will benefit from counseling. While seeking a counselor for your child, consider finding a family counselor. You are all affected emotionally be this diagnosis. Individual and family therapy can help you work through the rough spots that will come.
4. Keep a check on your physical well-being
Regular medical care is necessary since stress can cause physical illness. Your well-being is necessary in order to care for your family. Allow time for yourself and your hobbies. Plan regular outings and just be a family. Asperger’s shouldn’t
control your life.
5. Don’t let the cynics get you down.
You can’t stop people from reacting negatively to your child, but you can stop
responding to their negativity. If they miss the joy of knowing your child, that is their problem.
Article Source: "What Every Parent Ought To Know About Their Aspergers Child"
From: Dave Angel (Author of "The Parenting Aspergers Resource Guide")
Dave Angel is a social worker with over 11 years real life experience in the field working with families just like yours and a Masters Degree in Applied Social Studies.
Over the past eleven years he has worked with hundreds of families who have had children with special needs (both young and old) and have a special interest in Aspergers.
Read more about effective methods which can have a really positive effect on your aspergers child:
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Asperger Syndrome behavior - Practical Help
Aspergers Treatment
Aspergers Syndrome Cause
Asperger Syndrome Behaviour
Asperger Syndrome Behavior - Sexual Behavior
ASPERGER SYNDROME BEHAVIOR BLOG
Aspergers Temper Tantruns
Aspergers Diet
Aspergers Syndrom Cause
Asperger Syndrome Details
Aspergers Symptoms
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